Guess he was a total piece of crap. I feel sorry for his wife and children.

I think there is a lesson in this for not only athletes but young men as well. So called "affairs" are messy in that these people are reveling in what they see as some kind of anti conventional behavior. The truth is that the guy is getting a little sex and hopefully having fun "on teh side" while having a conventional family life. Obviously the trophy husband is as frivolous and disingenuous as the trophy wife. The danger is that when one is perceived as a valuable thing over being a person in a relationship, the potential dramatic and dangerous drama is magnified. I think the thing to remember is that the greater cause of homocide is the perceived slight over a real one.

I think there is a lesson in this for not only athletes but young men as well. So called "affairs" are messy in that these people are reveling in what they see as some kind of anti conventional behavior. The truth is that the guy is getting a little sex and hopefully having fun "on the side" while having a conventional family life. Obviously the trophy husband is as frivolous and disingenuous as the trophy wife. The danger is that when one is perceived as a valuable thing over being a person in a relationship, the potential for dangerous drama is magnified. I think the thing to remember is that the greater cause of homocide is the perceived slight over a real one.

thats a dam shame people are still digging and that mans family is suffering . People who live in glass houses should not cast stones. Focus on something that matters

WHAT ELSE DO U THINK HIGH PAID ATHLETES DO WHILE THEY RETIRE ASK A GUY NAME MICHAEL JORDAN

When men stop measuring their self worth by how many women they bed rather than on being good fathers and husbands, this sort of problem will continue. It's particularly bad in the black community where 70% of children are born out of wedlock and affairs are typical. The white community is about 30% out of wedlock.

I don't feel sorry for the guy at all. He played with fire and got burned. I feel for his family. By talking about this case perhaps more men and women will think twice about cheating.

Just because he had other women, does not mean is was a piece of crap. Having other women is one thing and being a nice guy is another.

They just want to run his name in the ground until they can't anymore. They want to make him look really awful for his mistake. Mr.Steve McNair is dead just let him rest in peace. What is the purpose? Are reporters this desperate for a story?

how come stories like this never involve a white kicker????

It doesn't matter the color or ethnic group, a man is gonna' do what a man is gonna' do

What I don't understand is why married people continue to have affairs. If you're unhappy, man-up and try to repair your marriage or leave. Affairs cause tremendous emotional damage to spouses and especially to the kids when it comes out. Cheaters usually end up getting caught eventually. Why bother??

Man, that nigga got around. He must have liked the dark white meat. More power to ya if you can get away wit it.

But "color or ethnic group" DOES matter. The numbers don't lie. Why is that 3 out of every 4 black children are born and raised by a single mother with little or no help from the father? This is twice the rate of any other "color or ethnic group". We have to get our our house and quit blaming others.

This kind of stuff happens all the time. Only because he was a high profile sports figure, you PATHETIC WANNA BE REPORTERS, keep dragging his name thruogh the dirt just to get a story. It's done and over with, let the man rest in peace, and let his family put the ordeal behind them.

I'm sorry that he has passed but,How can you do that to your wife and children. That what makes me so upset that these men can do what want without having a consequence, and smelling them
selves. Just being SELFISH.

Adultery is a sin. But he who is without sin let him cast the first stone. Steve had a million good qualities and maybe a few bad ones. The bottom line NO ONE IS PERFECT. People can watch a porno movie while being married and think it is ok when it is not. So please keep Steve and his family in your Prayers. Remember King David that slept with Besheba. He is the only man that is recorded in the Bible to be "a man after God's own heart". David Gorham - Dallas Texas

White kickers can't the trim like a smooth talkin brotha with a fat wallet.

My boy died livin' the good life.

thats a dam shame people are still digging and that mans family is suffering . People who live in glass houses should not cast stones. Focus on something that matters

Posted by: DT at October 20, 2009 5:22 PM
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ALWAYS trying to blame someone else. Report's jobs are to report. His family is suffering because of what he did.

It all comes down to morality and character. It doesn't matter if you are rich or poor, black or white, it is about being satisfied with what you have. If you have a spouse/significant other, love'm or leave'm. I find that many people just don't know how to love or what love really is. I know temptation is hard but cheating just ain't worth it. I wish I knew this in my younger years but all I can do is pass it on.

The reality is that you can be the nicest guy in the world...and still be a sorry azz excuse for a man. All of these assumptions are made about the girl being crazy, about the women using him because of his bank account...including his wife...and the truth is that none of us knows what went on in the private moments that these women shared with him. Sure...they might all be gold-digging tramps...but they might also be nice girls who were truly in love with the man. He took vows with his wife...he swore before God and family that he would honor and keep her forever...then he went out and lived his life like he never said the words. I don't care how much money and time he gave to charity...it doesn't make him a good man. It makes him a person who did good things. He betrayed his wife and his children and he left them with an unbelievable chunk of pain and humiliation to swallow...all while trying to deal with losing him. None of these people impress me. The men are fools...the women are fools. How did these women think they were going to keep their marriages together when they live separate lives? Money can't buy you happiness...and the children involved here are gonna be so screwed up it isn't funny...and as usual...its because grown folks were out just doing whatever the hell felt good at the time...with no regard for the ramifications. Sad....very, very sad.

Imagine the Little Ones learnin the smooth talkin brotha with a fat wallet routine- yep, the world will for sure become a better place then. Wonda how you would feel if it was a smooth talkin Mud-a with a fat wallet doing it on you! Your boy died, then stood before the MAN giving an account of his Life..... oooopppssss, it's damn hot in here... where the heck is this place?????? Don't think it will happen... try your LUCK!!!!

If you cant stand the man cheating just leave. There is no need to take his life and especially yours over something that is a reality. some people cheat and some people dnt. I just hope plp would think rationally about the issue instead of making a big deal and killing others in the same hand.

WOW! further proof that god hates us all.

Who cares? Go out and get a job, pay taxes, and take these trash news stories and look at them for what they are: Sensationalism to sell ads.

That is awful that he would cheat on his family!!! If you do not want to stay with your husband or wife. Leave....... don't cheat.... that can destroy peoples future. Childern and the other spous that got hurt. That is rude.....

I'm truly sorry to hear this. I think this is good for us to hear this. Mr. McNair was looking for something...maybe he thought having women outside his marriage would give him that "thing" he was looking for.

People need to learn from this experience. Our Heavenly Father will not put up with disobedience. Everyone says McNair was a good man, but in the eyes of our Heavenly Father he was an evil man. It was not McNair that gave money to charities but rather it was the Holy Ghost that gave the money...for all things on this earth were created by our Heavenly Father. People need to start reading the Holy Word and find out that just to look upon another woman is to commit adultery in their hearts. If you desire another woman you have already been spiritually unfaithful to your spouse. Clean up your lives people and cast out the beam that is in your own eye first before you can say how others are messing up in life. Pray for McNair's widow to have peace in her life and then pray for the people to change and turn back towards our Heavenly Father.

I just have spouted regarding the numbers of children born out of wedlock to black mothers vs white mothers. Check your FACTS, what is never discussed is the fact that white women have twice as many abortions as black women. So it's not that white women are not getting pregnant out of wedlock it's just that they choose to KILL their babies rather than have them out of wedlock. So I guess the question is which one if more of a sin, to have them out of wedlock or to kill them??????

I just have to comment on the statistics spouted regarding the numbers of children born out of wedlock to black mothers vs white mothers. Check your FACTS, what is never discussed is the fact that white women have twice as many abortions as black women. So it's not that white women are not getting pregnant out of wedlock it's just that they choose to KILL their babies rather than have them out of wedlock. So I guess the question is which one is more of a sin, to have them out of wedlock or to KILL them??????

The one killing the babies is the doctors who are killing for money. The mothers are not totally innocent but when you say a woman is a baby killer make sure that you are speaking truthfully. The killers are the doctors...I know...I suffered for 20 years with the knowledge that my baby had to be aborted. I thought of my self as a murderer and felt I did not deserve to be alive but the Holy Ghost revealed to me that I did not kill the baby...the DOCTOR did. Peace be unto all those that had abortions and are suffering now.

all this late info does is to ruin a loyal wife's good memories of him noone gains a danm thing but Mrs Mcnair has so much to lose it was bad nuff on the murder siicide noe it's tainted more so by revealing another affair leave the man rest in peace and the lady was hurt too much with out the media rubbing salt into her wounds

NUFF SAID

BOB

A man of great virtue and character? or a weak man exploiting young women, sexuality out of control? His life will be defined by his death. How sad for the sons he left behind.

This is not about black, white, athelete or not. Nor is it about being a single black woman raising your child alone...(you choose to open your legs and lay there). This is about two individuals losing their lives and about the families that are in pain because of this. God bless their families and God bless the ignorance that is being displayed in this blog and media. Say a prayer for someone, including these families.

It is shocking to me just how much God has been brought up in this thread.

Promiscuity is everywhere, at every level of society. Therefore none of us can judge what he should be doing with his married life. It appears the only mistake Steve McNair made was not understanding the risk involved when playing the mistress game. A spurned woman is dangerous. Steve apparently made promises he had no intentions of keeping. The woman who killed him was of a different culture. This was a difficult relationship that violated her religious boundaries. Her family practically disowned her for engaging a man outside their ethnicity. This was no american hoochie mamma who would gladly accept a sugar daddy proposition and sit back and enjoy it. Marriage was the sole objective for Sahel.......Poor Steve, he never, ever, realized what he had gotten himself into.

Black male athletes run amok procreating because, like animals, they can smell a woman ovulating. Black athletes run amok and, like animals fight when they feel their territory is being threatened. Now, because Black athletes have been trained to speak – but possess a limited vocabulary with even less understand of the word they speak – they use the word “respect” because they are unable to cogently explain what it is they feel. Black athletes run amok and commit all types of crimes because, like animals, they lack the distinctly human trait of reason. This is why Black athletes have problems when behind the wheel of a car. This is why black athletes are prone to drug and alcohol addiction, because they are drawn to that which makes them feel good – much like a cat with catnip. Black athletes run amok because they, like animals, are enthralled by and wontonly attracted to that which is shiny. This is why the vast preponderance of Black athletes are awash in jewelry at all times. They will even purchase plastic water bottles with hidden compartments built into them so they can hide their jewelry when traversing through airports; so that, when seated in an airplane and feeling anxious while awaiting takeoff – Black athletes are, like their animal counterparts, known to despise of enclosed areas – or in the air, they can pull out their sparkling objects from their “water” bottles and glare at them and become lost in and ultimately sedated by the singular glint of the precious stones they spent an inordinate amount of their contract dollars to possess. Black athletes’ distaste for feeling enclosed is also why they purchase huge manses, though they might be viewed by the reasoned as gauche. The abundance of space and widely varied outdoor and indoor environments allows Black athletes to feel unrestrained and free.

It never fails. When will the day come when race and politics stop being the topic of these blogs? Let's not pretend white guys don't screw up as well. Look at the number of corporate executives who not only screw around on their families, but steal the pension funds of those who work for them.

He got what he deserved.....next!!!!

I never said he didn't. What he did caught up with him, but stop making it a cultural thing where only minorities screw around on their families is all I'm saying. Too bad the Haliburton contractors who gang raped that woman didn't get theirs.

Okay! Everybody needs to calm down. Breath.

May Steve McNair rest in peace. Let's celebrate the good he did in his community. Let's celebrate his football career. Let's celebrate with his family his life; as they must still deal with the loss of a father, husband, brother, uncle.

That nigga got what he deserved, lock and load bitches and shoot them in both heads if they cheat. I will still allow you to enter the gates of heaven!

Why is it people cheat on the job and it's considered bad / wrong / imoral - but on this site some people are saying "great if he can get away with it" I know there are a few people with morals - this man cheated on his family. Children that were innocent and a wife that probably loved him and devoted herself.

The media that built up Steve McNair (along with his athletic talent) is the same media that will seemingly stop at no end to ensure that every little dirty secret he has comes out, eventhough the man has passed. That shows you how much they care. So, to all those in the limelight, be aware because your position is fragile!!

i believe no matter what comments are posted that PEOPLE are going to continue to cheat... This should be a lesson learned, but really no one really cares.. We are all made to be selfish in some way sooo..

This whole blog is idiotic. The notion that this is a Black and White situation is just plain stupid. This is a case of the "have" and the "have-nots"! Every man regardless of his economical status wants more, more, more... His economical status dictates his spending and affordablility habits. Morals kick in, however, the more money men have they tend to use less moral logic. Steve was a great father but a piss poor husband. We all can learn from his mistakes, however, grow the **** up. This man has paid the ultimate price for his wrongs. Not one of you ***holes have any final JUDGMENT powers. So let the man rest in peace and answer to the one who has the FINAL JUDGMENT POWERS. RIP-STEVE

SAD this race thing and animals this COUNTRY
BETTER GET OVER IT AND STICK TOGETHER.

TO much hate to much judgement

Steve McNair paid the ultimate price for screwing around outside of marriage. This woman who shot him had invested everything with him and now he was scorning her ...
I feel sorry for this man but this relationship was nothing but trouble from the start.

All Banjo lips are the same. And the beat goes on.....

The women who whored with Steve McNair are just cheap trash. They knew he was married and did not care.. If he was unhappy in his marriage he had options. YES.. I do blame the women as much if not more then Mr McNair. They did not take vows with someone like Mr. Mcnair, but they showed no respect for themselves or other women.

His kids have to live with the fact that their father was murdered by his mistress, and then find out that there was another women too.

When will women start having respect for themselves and other women, and stop acting like cheap whores? They knew he was married, and still chose to pursue him. Who is moe at fault? The man who is seeking relations outside of his marriage, or the women who know he is married and do not care. If is just for the money or material possesions that he can provide in exchange for the sex, they are no better then a prostitute, except that they are not as honest about it...

uhhh is anyone surprised. the black community trains its youth to act this way. Why is anyone shocked.

lets see is anyone surprised here. With all of the problems with our black youth you would think "succesful" people would try to change something.

this man has sons people please let's leave the sordid details away

It is an ignorant and unintelligent argument that infidelity is associated with race, when the facts don't substantiate that claim; And, those who do so only demonstate their prejudice and unintelligence. Moreover, those who stereotype an entire race is not worth the dignity of a response.

Let the people marry as many, and you'll have fewer problems. Also, please remember that there is a difference between cheating and doing what you have to do.

I think Mr. McNair was a good person. There are two sides to every story and he is not here to tell his. I do wish everyone would just allow this to rest. This man was a Son, a Husband, and a Father. His family needs time to grieve their loss. Everyone is so selfish and it for the money or the publicity. So, I will keep his wife children and family members in my prayers for peace to soon come their way and the ache that must be in their hearts to lessen soon.

This is not just about the lack of morality within the African American relationships at this time. Its also about the level of HIV/AIDS in the African American community, which is spread and contiuned by lies, games and deciet. This is not about just a roll in the hay, it about life and death that has gripped our community, affected the lives of our sons, our daughters, mothers, fathers, husbands and wivies and possiblily YOU, when were you last tested? So you see it alot deeper in the African American family were more than 80% of the infection is located.

I would say anywhere between 75-90% of married famous, wealthy male athletes (white & black both) cheat on their wives (although both the quantity and percentages are quite higher in blacks, important or not). It just goes with the territory in affluent Western societies. Unless you are an admitted golddigger who's only in it for the money anyway, there's absolutely no reason to marry an athlete--and expect fidelity. Every one of them will say, "but I'm different" or something to that sentiment, but every woman should know better (and probably does deep down). It's a sick society, and eventhough men have cheated since before the caveman days, it's a lot easier to do it when you are in a situation similar to McNair's.... almost all athletes cheat, they just haven't been caught yet (which goes to show, they are not nearly as dumb as they are unscrupulous).

hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

If u ever saw the movie 'Why Did We Get Marry" u remeber the part about the 80,20 rule. Your wife give u 80% and the woman on the side is 20%. Why give up 80 to get 20?

It is a shame when a single,girl puts on a short skirt and flaunts it in front of a married man,she was a litle muslum house wrecker,and she is a murderer.and you retards are mad at the, QB blackies love a little white meat ,lets just add this up.1.negro QB dead. 2. muslum dead.its a "win win". Not to mention" the little gold digger saved us, the time and money" for a trial...

When you play with fire, you get burned or in this case get fired at and now burn in Hades. Steve was a very self centered man as are many super star athletes and actors that feel the world is their playground and they can do what they want without consequences. Unfortunately, consequences caught up with him. How many more men will leave behind suffering families because they believe they won't get caught cheating and bad things only happen to other people?

"It is a shame when a single,girl puts on a short skirt and flaunts it in front of a married man,she was a litle muslum house wrecker,and she is a murderer.and you retards are mad at the, QB blackies love a little white meat ,lets just add this up.1.negro QB dead. 2. muslum dead.its a "win win". Not to mention" the little gold digger saved us, the time and money" for a trial...

Posted by: cheater mcool at October 21, 2009 12:15 AM"

I'm suprised that you know how to even use a computer with such a mind as closed as that.

No need to trample on a man's grave. Please close this comments section.

MY COMMENT IS THIS MEN WOULDN'T CHEAT IF YOU WOMEN WOULD STOP BEING SO DAM WEAK MINDED AND WHOREST.IF YOU NO A MAN IS IN A RELATIONSHIP LEAVE HIS CHEATING A-- ALONE I DON'T CARE HOW MUCH MONEY HE MAKES GET OFF UR A-- AND GET A JOB AND DO UR OWN THING AND STOP DEPENDING ON THESE MEN FOR EVERYTHING BECAUSE ALOT OF THESE CHICS WHO DEAL WITH THESE ATHLETES ONLY DO IT FOR FINANCIAL SUPPORT AND THESE GUYS KNOW THIS THAT'S WHY HE WILL ONLY LOOK AT YOU AS A ROLL IN THE HAY. SO WOMEN GET A LIFE AND GROW THE HELL UP.THIS COMMENT IS COMING FROM A INDEPENDENT BLACK WOMAN!!!

you know if i was younger, i would have said its all good like some of you younger cats, but after cheating on my ex, and realizing how much i messed up, i must say that its better to love em or leave em. especially if you are married. emotions cant always be controlled and sometimes people do irrational things because of their emotions. i feel like mr. mcnair should just rest in peace, but it is a lesson, especially to us young black brothers who add to this statistics of kids growing up by themselves, but that has a lot to do with the plight of black males, with no education, no jobs, and the fact that there are more black women in better situation. not to make excuses, but its a fact.

I agree these comments just make people angry reading the hatred that STILL exists in our world will it stop of course will it be to late more than likely.The most hateful comments probably comes from the people we least expect the people who are supposed to help others publicly. What a shame.

More black trash! It is sick enough that we have the black b*****d in the white house; along with his big amazon wife! Why do these color people (apes) think they are something? Put them ALL on a ship and send them back to Africa, Kenya, or wherever else anyone would take them. They smell like rotten slop; that can NOT be hidden! I bet Mrs. Amazon smells like this under the arms of those sleeveless garbs that show off her BIG, BRAWLY look. She shud be covering up as much of that black, leather skin as possible. So much for the lovers of this cheating black porch monkey. He got what he deserved!!!!!

My dear people,
After reading some of your comments, I decided to write a response!
I retired from the N.F.L. many years ago and the media has fooled all of you!
The issue at hand is a clear cut problem all over the world!
I agree with some of you that this is a social problem everywhere in our country and really not related to race!
The media can make you believe anything they want and we as Americans are very gullible!!!!!
If there are more whites in our country than minorities, why do percentages of a negative always favor a non-white?
If your numbers are true, this means whites are the most angelic people on the planet or at least in this country!!!
There are more less-fortunate, uneducated, homeless whites in our country than minorities but why do we not hear about this truth in our society???
Yes, I have dark skin and I',m Muslim but if I'm catching TD's on game day, most of you would be cheering!!!!!
Just how sick is that?
Every man should be judged individually not collectively!!!!!!!!
I have not been with a woman going on 3 yrs.
And no, I'm not gay!!!!!
But I choose to wait until I'm led to my most excellent mate for a wife!
I need only one woman but in today's world, it's tough finding a good girl!
Please don't make all pro athletes especially football players out to be the same!!!
I agree, in today's world, pro football has changed and it seems a lot of the guys do not have any class as they still duplicate negative actions learned from their perspective communities!
But the goal of us all is to take care of our own actions, always doing what's best for the whole of humanity!
Yes, we all need to come closer together!
Question for you all:
If someone came to our shores to take our country, can we pull together, put away our differences, kick butt and send them away????????
I sure hope so!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"HIS"Peace to all of you!